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Posted by response to corporatebrother on September 29, 2000 at 09:49:22:

as salaam aleikum,

you wrote:
Brother. I can not understand how black women are able to succeed in corporate america and why most balck men can not. I get the gist of the debate that says the white male jsut wants to be around her more than us but I thirst for some concrete studies of this reality. I mean where I work the sisters get along great with the white co-workers while I struggle. The sisters close better contracts with higher slaes numbers week after week. And I "sell by telephone." The most attractive ones that are here turn there noses up at me and accept the flirtatious remarks of white male co-workers. I am now ever more shock at the numbers of "supremely attractive sisters walking arm n arm with white males." How does she psycologically adjust so well and the black man not do the same? This is true look at OPRAH being the wealthiest in America of us. Are there any books I can read that delve into this? I have a feeling that she is manipulated by the white man with the same psycology skill of a "pimp." But since I do not understand either I hate the feeling I have of not knwoing why?

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In response to corporate brother. the devilslayer referred to the issue of power he was much right.
HE KNOWS THE "NATURE OF THE WOMAN" IS:
TO "GRAVITATE TOWARD A POWERFUL MAN!"
THEREFORE, THE WHITE MAN IS
"THE SUPER POWER OF THE EARTH" AND THE "BLACK MAN IS POWERLESS!"HENCE, EVEN IF THE BLACK MAN "HAS A JOB," HE IS STILL "WORKING FOR" THE "MAN OF POWER; THE WHITE MAN!"
But you can also see it from the other sight many brothers and others who despise white corporate america, also generate a certain power centre, as they stand up and oppose power. These vigilantes and outlawz attract much attention and woman; white as well as black. Which refers to the notion of opposites attracting eachother.
Good reading on the psychology of sex and race is Eldridge cleavers' soul on ice and soul on fire or some of the books by James Baldwin.
One other aspect involving is in my opinion not the power of the white man, but of the black woman. The black woman knows she can more easliy dominate the white man than she can the black man; thus most often she chooses the easy way out. Part of the reason here is that the black man has a bad reputation as being monagamous.
This former fact is also one of the reasons many man black and white prefer asian woman, cuz they are known to be passive, submisse and loyal; but each his own, that's personal prference.
Nonetheless. The power of the mind and heart is endless. Your want is always granted. Just be careful with what it is you want.
peace

Eye1der




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